I haven’t checked Lemmy for a long time but I wanna get off Reddit again, yet I still need to know how many users are on here. Which lemmy instances are suitable to me, the most popular, and which ones to avoid? For context, im queer, anarchist with DemSoc leaning, and environmentalist. Is there a comprehensive list of all the instances and their main functions? Is the instance I’m on still workable? Any feedback would help, thx. <3

  • Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
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    6 days ago

    it’s cause you said I wasn’t really trans until I showed you literal proof; and still you call me ‘trans’ in scare quotes. People can still be trans without being on meds, I know more than enough homeless or tenuously housed trans girls who struggle to keep their prescriptions filled regularly- or at all. Guess what, plenty of them wouldn’t agree with your politics either. Doesn’t make them no longer trans.

    Deciding that you’re the cis arbiter of who’s trans and who isn’t does make you a transphobe though.

    No, I don’t accept the bottle of estrogen and sticky note your friend sent you

    I could fucking fully dox myself and transphobes like you would still make up some bullshit to not believe me

    death to america

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      6 days ago

      Yes, yes, spout off as if you’re on stage — your virtue means you’re very believable.

      When did I decide I’m the arbiter of who is and isn’t trans? I’m accusing you of lying, dipshit, I didn’t make you a paragon of your people*.

      Meanwhile, we have an entire thread of you continually admitting you’re trans and saying death to America. I wonder whose rhetoric harms trans people more?

      Of course that’s rhetorical, you think you speak for every trans person in existence! Simple because you’re trans. Odd how that looks, isn’t it?

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        I don’t speak for every trans person, however you deciding that i’m not ‘really’ trans because you don’t like my opinions does make you a transphobe.

        idk why I give fash like you the time of day

        death to america btw